Sensuality: Within and Beyond Sexuality - KinkForAll Providence (by Emma Gross)

A lot of people think sex mostly has to do with orgasm. I am being educated out of this concept.

Turns out that there’s a lot of sex that doesn’t have to do with orgasm. There’s a lot of leading up to orgasm. And, in fact, you can keep that leading up to orgasm going on for months.

[Laughter.]

And that’s great! Man, can you focus on your senses! In fact, you can’t focus on anything else. :)

[Audience: “And sometimes, you can do it by choice!”]

Sometimes some people do it by choice. Some people do it by my choice.

[Laughter; applause.]